The SFCS Middle School Soccer team has struggled this season. After a stunning opening day victory, the battles have been long and prolonged. The crowd? Demoralized, discouraged, searching for answers, asking “why?”
So, what is the problem?
- The coach? They didn’t do any better with the old coach. They don’t do any better with the varsity coach.
- The offense? Well, there’s something to say about the dearth of goals. The defense can only keep the ball out of their own goalfor “so” long! Why have they been shut out so often? Obviously, the offense has not been doing its job at all. In fact, without offense, it’s impossible to win!
- The defense? The defense as a whole has been pretty good I think. For every goal scored by the opposition, the SFCS defense has stopped 50 or 60 (well, maybe I am exaggerating!).
- The goal keeper? Just like the defense can’t stop every shot from an endless barrage from the enemy, neither can the goal keeper. Has he made errors? Sure, but he’s not the reason why the team is struggling.
- All the kids who do not belong to the parent(s) who is (are) complaining? You should hear the parents while watching the game. Each one criticizes and berates all the players except their own. It truly is disgusting! Then they criticize the coach, then they criticize the old coach, then they criticize the Athletic Director. Sure, it’s not all the parents. In fact, I would say that most of the parents do not participate in such talk. It’s the loud, vocal, “my son is the greatest soccer player in the history of the planet” parents who make it SEEM like it’s all the parents… it’s really not.
It’s bad enough to see your team struggling so much in almost every game. It’s almost intolerable to sit and hear the same discussions over and over again, with increasing intensity as the season progresses! “So what?” you ask. Well, I’m glad that you asked this question.
First, let me say that I do not advocate “thought police.” If this is how some parents want to act, that’s fine. I understand that it’s frustrating to have another year of lackluster performance from the team. It’s monotonous to see the opposition score unanswered goal upon unanswered goal. It’s discouraging to see the players bicker, blame each other and become discouraged.
Second, from my experience, I would say that the parents in youth sports everywhere act the same. It’s horrible, but it’s true. I’m just glad that we’ve never really encountered any of those “out of control” games you read about in the news!
Finally, the solution. I don’t really think anything is wrong with the coaches or the players. Seriously. I think that the other teams are better than the Crusaders. We need to understand why the other teams are better rather than search out other people to blame for any perceived failures.
Do I know why the other teams are better? Well, let’s think about this:
- Maybe all the good soccer players go to other schools. Well, I guess this is possible, but I find it hard to believe that all the “bad” soccer players go to our school. Besides, I fully believe that the Crusaders can beat any team out there.
- Maybe the games are rigged. I doubt it.
- Maybe the coaches are all better than our coaches. No. This is middle school. I don’t have any problem believing that our coach is as good or better than the others.
- Maybe the VARSITY coach is better. Well, if so, wouldn’t the varsity team win a couple?
- Maybe all our players have family “issues” and all the players on the other teams don’t. Very unlikely. I expect that “issues” are fairly uniform in their distribution.
- Maybe the other teams practice more. Could be.
SUGGESTED STRATEGIES: I’m no expert on soccer, so I can’t really get into any in-depth strategies here. Here’s a couple suggestions that might help:
- Score more goals.
- Stop passing to the opposing team.
- RUN OUT THE CLOCK for the whole game. That would be a feat in itself if it were ever done!
Well, that’s my analysis folks. It’s been a tough season, but it’s almost (finally) over. I’m just glad that “winning isn’t everything.” GO CRUSADERS!